Failure

Remember the last time you failed in life? What did you do after that? Failure is that pause in life, which gives you time to think about your weaknesses and work upon them. Failure has been stereotyped as depression and disappointment. Lets explore the optimistic side of the "Failure".

Its not about when and how you failed, its all about "WHY" you failed !! Think where you went wrong. Did your planning go wrong? Did you lacked confidence? Were you afraid? Did you knew it all and still failed? Why? Why? Why? Going through this process of questioning yourself will help you figuring out one or more of your weak spots. You would stop blaming others and eventually learn to accept your fault behind your failure. Like most of the times, the reason behind your messed up Laptop or computer is no other than YOU...LOL

The main part where Failure turns into your motivation is when you start thinking about the game plan to overcome that failure. Its the very next step to follow after you have extracted out reasons behind failure. Target the reasons. Plan in a way that you do not make the same mistakes again and again. Forget the disappointment of failure now and think it up as a NEW game. Give it your best shot the next time and I bet it will turn out better than the last one. Make failure your prime weapon and see how the post-failure steps can give you more than what success would had given you.

There is an advantage of Failure over Success. When you fail, you can never make that specific mistake again in life. When you Succeed, you may overlook or skip that loophole which can come across you on any random day of your life. So, failure provides you a kind of "Experience" here.

Each failure is a learned lesson. The more you learn lessons, the bigger is your Success. Fail. Try Again. Fail. Try Again. Do that till the cycle breaks. Each failure should make you stronger and confident rather than weaker and sad. Failure, if thought of properly, has the power to improve your limitations and imperfections. Even a small failure should not be over looked because NOW you know what rewards Failures can give you in life.