Failure

Remember the last time you failed in life? What did you do after that? Failure is that pause in life, which gives you time to think about your weaknesses and work upon them. Failure has been stereotyped as depression and disappointment. Lets explore the optimistic side of the "Failure".

Its not about when and how you failed, its all about "WHY" you failed !! Think where you went wrong. Did your planning go wrong? Did you lacked confidence? Were you afraid? Did you knew it all and still failed? Why? Why? Why? Going through this process of questioning yourself will help you figuring out one or more of your weak spots. You would stop blaming others and eventually learn to accept your fault behind your failure. Like most of the times, the reason behind your messed up Laptop or computer is no other than YOU...LOL

The main part where Failure turns into your motivation is when you start thinking about the game plan to overcome that failure. Its the very next step to follow after you have extracted out reasons behind failure. Target the reasons. Plan in a way that you do not make the same mistakes again and again. Forget the disappointment of failure now and think it up as a NEW game. Give it your best shot the next time and I bet it will turn out better than the last one. Make failure your prime weapon and see how the post-failure steps can give you more than what success would had given you.

There is an advantage of Failure over Success. When you fail, you can never make that specific mistake again in life. When you Succeed, you may overlook or skip that loophole which can come across you on any random day of your life. So, failure provides you a kind of "Experience" here.

Each failure is a learned lesson. The more you learn lessons, the bigger is your Success. Fail. Try Again. Fail. Try Again. Do that till the cycle breaks. Each failure should make you stronger and confident rather than weaker and sad. Failure, if thought of properly, has the power to improve your limitations and imperfections. Even a small failure should not be over looked because NOW you know what rewards Failures can give you in life.

SATISFACTION

Satisfaction is an important part of your day. Satisfaction is a process. Yes, it is a process that happens in your mind and reflects in your attitude.

Anything that can freshen up your mind, make you feel relaxed and brings a smile on your face is a source of satisfaction. Playing your favorite game, listening to your fav music, watching your fav TV show, talking to your fav person, operating your fav e-device, driving your car, going to the fav place of the city you live in, eating your fav food, etc are the things that satisfy you. These are the most obvious sources of satisfaction because they make you happy and happiness is a direct and most common part of the process of satisfaction.

Real challenge of our lives is to experience satisfaction in the things that really do not appeal to happiness. Some everyday things like going to school or going to job do not make most of the people happy after the first few days. Such people just consider it as a part of a day and do not gain satisfaction out of it. They do not understand that completing even a small task at their job or completing a homework or exam at a school is sort of satisfaction.

Somethings in life just go unobserved and unrealized. We forget to realize what we achieved during the entire day. When we get back to our house after a longg busy day, what we concentrate on is dinner and then going to bed. We just keep crying and get sad thinking that we had a busyy day. We do not realize that in this day we did a lottt of satisfactory things.

Do not forget to add up things at the end of the day. I bet the total will put up a smile on your face and give u a feeling like "wow....I had a wonderful day".....now this is what i call SATISFACTION.

SeT YoUr GoaLS !!

GOALS are set to be achieved..!!! A person who sets goals always succeeds in life. Goals have the capacity to stimulate the waves which helps you to rule the ocean of success. Considering Motivation to be the prime topic of discussion, I will like to introduce "SET GOALS" as one of the motivators !

Living your life as it comes is a good quality. This quality will always keep you ready for the twists and turns in life. But setting goals is the best quality. This quality can help you plan your life. When you "set goals" and achieve them, you can take your life where ever you want it to go. This way you control your life and you do not need to worry about the twists and turns. As a result, you end up playing the games of your life by your own rules. And you always WIN when you play by your own rules!!

When talking about goals, I do not mean Ambitions. Your ambition and goals are distinct but dependent on each other. By goals, I mean about the short-term goals and the long-term goals which later on transform into your ambitions. Short-term goals are the day to day goals or the goals which you are gonna achieve in near future. Long-term goals are the goals on which your short-term goals are based. Lets take an example, if you wanna be a bollywood actor someday, your short-term goals should be taking acting classes, learning acting skills, doing plays and vivid small-large stage shows. This will take you to long-term goal of mastering the acting skills. At the time you achieve your long-term goal, you are ready to go for your ambition to be bollywood actor! This way, you can achieve your goals one by one and target the aim of your life !!

Human mind works like a computer. When you set a goal in your mind, your mind saves it in its memory. When you go to sleep, your subconscious mind processes the goals and measures your passion towards that goal. Dreams are connected to this, but I wont discuss about dreams rite now and stick to the goal of discussing about goals...lol. Your mind will keep sending you messages time to time and remind you about your goals all through the time you are awake. This reminders will keep stimulating you until you go after the goals and hunt them down! This is how the entire process of "Setting GOALS and Achieving GOALS" works!

Your "set goals" are a motivator to the process I described in the above paragraph. All you need is to do 2 simple things. Set your goals and be passionate about achieving them. After you do that, along with you, your mind and heart will be in a continuous process to achieve them. The unification of "SET GOALS" and "ACHIEVED GOALS" makes a perfect life.
Go ahead! your goals are waiting to get set and get achieved !

MORNING- Tea of freshness !

How have you thought about MORNING ? An enemy of your sleep ? A start of a long busy day ? A bad end to all your beautiful dreams ? A host of a lot of tensions? If at all you think this way, just stop it. Morning is the best Motivator you can ever have in your life!

The synonym for morning is beauty. Morning is one of the best features of nature. Morning is a blend of peace, freshness and innocence. The morning can be thought as a stimulator for the Sun to rise and spread its light to kill the evil darkness of the night. Morning is the "starter" for the fun-filled lunch of the tension-filled day.

Morning can be considered as a new life. We are born everyday and we die everyday. Every morning is a start to a new life where you have a chance to built your future. Morning helps you forget your past. Morning has the ability to kill your past tensions. The lonely paths in the morning are waiting for you to travel on them and lead you to success. Morning never distracts your dreams. It gives the confidence and courage to fulfill your dreams. Morning signals you that there is a lot of knowledge waiting to be achieved by you.

The chirping and singing of the birds is not to disturb your sleep. The birds sing to welcome you to the new life where you can be anything. Morning offers a lot of careers for a short sweet life. You can be a teacher and teach an important lesson to the world, you can save a life and be a doctor, you can inspire someone and be a source of inspiration, you can be a comedian and bring a smile on a worried face, you can be an optimist and show a ray of hope to someone, and finally you can be a genuine personality and spread humanity.

Morning encourages forgiveness and forgetfulness. It gives you a chance to forgive you enemies and forget your wrong decisions. It gives you an opportunity to meet thousands of people and makes hundreds of friends. It presents numerous dreams in front of ourselves and inspires us to pick a dream, follow it and make it come true before we die(while considering the 1-day life). Morning is the only time where you can see unlimited time for yourself which can be used to make the 1-day goals successful. It is the time where you can see your short life to be mistake-free, tension-free and energy-filled.

In the early morning as you might have noticed, the buds on some plants are almost ready to convert into flowers. This buds are so enthusiastic and impatient to get transformed into flower and get a new life for themselves. They just want to be a beautiful flower and swing in the fresh air of the morning. Do they ever think of a gardener taking their life away?..the straight answer to this is NO. Morning wants us to be like that buds. Morning wants to fill our new life with freshness and enthusiasm. It motivates us to take the new life with excitement, gain loads of knowledge every second, face tensions with ease, achieve specific goals and transform ourselves into a beautiful human being(flower), which can lead us to a satisfactory death.

Your future depends on how you take your mornings each day. Just take it as a new life as i explained in the above paragraphs. Try to wake up 15 minutes earlier than what you r supposed to. Lie in your bed for sometime. Try to feel the presence of morning. In your mind, make a list of your tasks for the day. Inculcate in yourself, the confidence, freshness, enthusiasm and energy given by the morning . Push the night and its dreams aside and run after the real dreams with the motivation and gadgets that morning provides you for free !!